Marilda's Blog
"read my lessons from everyday moments"Cutting Fake Grass and Why That’s Not My Problem to Own
In a recent session, we found ourselves discussing what it means to own a problem. While it’s not a new topic, it often pops up for people around the same time and becomes a bit of a theme. This particular conversation was about the decision to take ownership of a...
Finding My New Rhythm: Lessons in Balance and Growth
For four years, I've been deeply focussed in personal growth, focusing on my mindset and development. At the beginning of this year, I decided to shift gears. I chose to step back from working solely on myself and start concentrating on building my business and...
The Courage to Knock: Confronting Self-Doubt
It’s really hard for me to “sell” myself and what I do. The funny part is that I have no problem talking to others about things I’m passionate about… for others. But when it comes to putting myself out there, it feels like a mountain I just don’t know how to start...
Putting Yourself First: Why bother?
In the midst of juggling clients, business, and family, where do YOU fit in? It's a question we often overlook as we get swept up in the whirlwind of daily life. But it's time to pause and ask: when was the last time you took a moment for yourself? Think about it. How...
From Fear to Freedom: Owning Your Career Narrative
"My fear of failure along with my fear of missing out keeps my mouth shut and makes me wait and see what happens." – coaching client In recent coaching sessions and conversations, a common theme emerges - the struggle against challenges, fuelled by fear and...
Blog: Navigating Team Challenges: A Boss’s Battle
"My energy is not enough. I'm under pressure and can't depend on my team. I get frustrated when I have to explain things over and over again to my team." In recent heart-to-heart conversations with bosses, a common thread emerges - a sense of overwhelm, frustration,...
Navigating 2024: Taking Baby Steps Towards Change
I’ve heard so many people saying that 2023 was a rough year and they couldn’t wait for it to be over. The trouble with that is how we perceive it. We find ourselves in situations, but how we react in those situations and the stress we feel is what we take into the new...
Monkey Mishaps: Lessons in Adaptability
Living in Greater Kruger Park means we're in a constant battle with those cheeky monkeys trying to sneak into the house. My husband's love for wide-open windows doesn't make it any easier. Sometimes, despite our best efforts to tuck everything out of their reach, we...
Reframing Procrastination: A Clue, Not a Disaster
For a while now, I've been listening to my clients as they share their struggles with procrastination. It's a common thing, right? I've often wondered if there's more to it than meets the eye and maybe we shouldn't be too quick to label it as a villain. Here's a fancy...
Taking your foot off the brake
Recently, I had the opportunity to drive an automatic car. I hadn't handled an automatic in ages, so I was a bit unsure and way out of my comfort zone. After a quick rundown on the basics to jog my memory, we were good to go. Cruising through the Kruger National Park...